No one else gets to decide if they hurt you.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น, ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด? ๐˜•๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ. ๐˜•๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ. ๐—ก๐—ผ ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ต๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚. Trauma is an individual experience. We all have different coping mechanisms, life experiences, supports, and barriers that may lead to trauma processing differently. Your experience is valid. Donโ€™t allow anyone to tell you what trauma is like to you. Please see reposting guidelines under disclaimers, thank you